Sunday, March 7, 2010

What-a-Day_Love


So today i will be talking about something that's been on my mind all day, Love. I dont want to sound cheesy here but just bear with me ( i dont know if i used the right version of bear for that sentence lol). when it comes to relationships, i am real sucker. I go all out for my lady. I would buy her anything and say things to make her blush. Which is good but very bad.

so im here to give a little bit advice and a few experiences. Experiences of my own and a few anonymous friends. If your a guy reading this, please think about the next word, chivalry. what is chivalry??

chivalry- The qualities idealized by knighthood, such as bravery, courtesy, honor, and gallantry toward women.

WHAT HAPPENED TO IT???!!! its soooo upsetting for me to hear stories of women being abused emotionally and physically by their spouse or cheating on them with an ex or friend. i have been in a few relationships, some lasting then others. but i never ever cheated on her or mistreated her. i may have spoiled at times but its to show that i care for her and her only. And if your a guy with a girl and decided to go back to your ex, you're stupid. Why do you think they are called an ex? You're just going to break up again, and if you 2 decided to marry, a divorce is right around the corner. And to the person that was left behind, dont worry about that jerk. you'll find someone much more deserving of you. Like my friend Ray William Johnson always says "Move the FUCK on!!!" ( you should check out his youtube channel and subscribe http://www.youtube.com/user/raywilliamjohnson?blend=1&ob=4 )

Love should never be trifled with. Its a small word with a powerful meaning that people look at to separate them from this sad and cruel world, like me. What i mean is im talking to someone i really like and i hope it lasts for the rest of my life, im just saying. im not gonna say her name but only a few would know who im talking about lol. But yeah, im a type of guy that wants to share all these memories with someone that will be with me for who i am and the things i do. im not trying to say i need to be with someone to be happy because i dont just go on dates with random girls. im not like that, there has to be a reason why i like you from the start.

I also learned from a friend of mine new album "Everybody" by Ingrid Michealson. From her single 'Are we there yet', she says that your not somebody unless you make somebody somebody. I know it may not make sense reading it but say it out loud slowly or listen to her song, its very good. So i hope i can make this girl somebody, man im so lame and cheesy lol.

So anyone who reads this blog, please comment and tell me what your version of what loves is, or if you have any advice let me give you a little bit of my wisdom and hopefully it can help you. it doesnt to be relationship advice only, it can be anything. thank you^^

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  2. Women tend to follow the "bad boy" type or the party goers. Its when they grow up and become mature do they realize who they should be with. This may not always be the case but any respectable woman is not going to rush into a relationship without knowing how she really feels. You are still young and have plenty of time to find someone special. Its better to wait and find that special someone than to rush into a meaningless relationship.

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